Saturday, December 25, 2010

Merry Xmas everyone!!

Something my colleague did. NICE!!

Personalize funny videos and birthday eCards at JibJab!

Thursday, December 23, 2010

有一点动心。。

有一股冲动。。
想要买这。。。
哈哈哈哈


很美吧!!

心动的时刻。。。哈哈

張棟樑 - 之间 MV (女王不下班片尾曲)

现在再看的一部戏。。
Family ties.. Love... Friends...
All within the story.

Like the Song. Enjoy



分享我喜欢的歌
在这个小小的空间。。
有时候。。深夜里。。
回想一些有的没得。。

又要过一年了。。。

Monday, November 15, 2010

莫文尉 外面的世界

一样的歌,不一样的人。。
唱出完全不一样的感觉。。

Friday, October 22, 2010

Confuse

Starting to think if i am really suitable. For a job like this... Either i am Tired, or I have No more interest anymore... OR it's just the difference in the way we work..

Is this consider mid life crisis or is this normal? I dunno.. Just wanna to go on a holiday.. Think of nothing. Do nothing and be carefree..

I need time.

Thursday, October 07, 2010

A week in Beijing

因为工作。。去了北京一趟。。

这一趟让我对北京大有改观。

Traffic Jam almost everyday. Every single hours of the day. It's only till late evening that cars can run smoothly on the road.

The city had become so modern. A city which i guess i will wan to visit again.

But i seriously think.. if there is a need for me to work there.. i will think thrice.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

久了就习惯了

在微波读到这。。。

一个人单身久了,就不想去恋爱,会觉得朋友越来越重要。
一个人单身久了,就不想逛街,会越来越喜欢在家里听歌。
一个人单身久了,就变得成熟起来,会比以前更爱父母。
一个人单身久了,会想独处去很多很远的地方旅行。
一个人单身久了,会不经意的悄悄流泪,但会在众人面前装作什么都无所谓。

真的吗?

Friday, September 10, 2010

田馥甄 Hebe《寂寞寂寞就好》MV

还蛮好听的。。
很有味道。。
单飞吗?




欣赏'ing

Monday, August 30, 2010

Ungrateful...

I came across this article on facebook... And i think this guy deserved to be KILLED!! Ungrateful idiot~
Even if the mum DID not donate her eye to him... HE shldn't treat her this way.. LET alone.. becos of him.. his mum become this way!

I hope this story is NOT true... 

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

《一页台北》

恋爱的感觉,有时候,就像一杯咖啡、一首爵士乐或是一本书,熟悉却又动人,它悄悄地来到身边,让寂寞的心跳开始有了温度…

夜,骚动不安。恋人们,在城市里追寻。

追寻心跳的感觉。。

好喜欢这部戏。。音乐。。画面。。配合得很融洽。。

Monday, August 09, 2010

朋友间的感情

友情,友谊的同义词。

它是一种朋友和朋友之间的感情。

它是一种很美妙的东西,可以让你在失落的时候变得高兴起来,可以让你走出苦海,去迎接新的人生。

他就像一种你无法说出,又可以感到快乐无比的东西。只有拥有真正朋友的人,才能感受到它真正的美好之处。

友情,它是一种只有付出了同样一份这样的东西,才可以得到这种东西。它和亲情、爱情一样,是一种抽象的、令人捉摸不透的东西,但却要比它们更值得我们去珍惜。

友情不要求什么,但是,它有一种温暖,是我们都能体会到的。没有人能说清楚,友情到底是一种什么东西。 那它到底是什么东西呢?你只有付出关爱,付出真诚才能得到的东西。   想知道它到底是什么东西吗?那你只有自己去亲身体验了!

友情,它到底是什么?他只是一种感情,一种收获。多少笑声都是友谊唤起的,多少眼泪都是友谊擦干的。

友谊的港湾温情脉脉,友谊的清风灌满征帆。友谊不是感情的投资,它不需要股息和分红。

一连工作了两天。。48小时只睡5个下时。。 在我累到不行时。。朋友送上了热腾腾的咖啡。。到我工作现场。。好感动。。
谢谢你们!!那咖啡再让我熬过另外8个小时!

Friday, July 23, 2010

MARRIAGE

To those who are married, .. Not married .. and soon to be married, I hope you will be touched with this story...

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces.

The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release.

The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me.

But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning..

I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions.. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully..

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain.

From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead.. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy.

Do have a real happy marriag?

Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

第36個故事

You get to make many choices in life.
But which is the one you really wants.

我很羡慕朵儿。。
我也想向我的梦想前进。。

选择有很多
如果可以。。全都完成。。那是多好。。


喜欢戏里的这句对白。。
“跟別人喝東西﹐聽到很多本來不屬於自己的故事。可是聽多啦﹐也希望有一天自己有故事跟人家換啦。"

你有自己的故事吗?

如果给你选。。
读书或旅游。。
你会选哪一个?

Thursday, July 08, 2010

分手

最静在与朋友讨论女生于男生分的情况。。

她“当女生和男生分手时,是很绝情的。。没有留念。
我“但女生的感情应该比较脆弱吧!
她“没有咯。。女生比较实际。。不拖。。

那当男生于女生分手时呢?

她“男生比较优柔寡断。。不知道自己要什么。。等到最后。。还是女生提出。。
我“这个我赞成。。不让就是被抓。。bobian...

在微博读到。。

女人会记得让她笑的男人,
男人会记得让他哭的女人,
可是女人总是留在让她哭的男人身边,
男人却留在让他笑的女人身边。
哭或者笑都是真情的流露。
但对于大多数人来说,
笑比哭好,所以女孩要学会让自己心爱的男人笑。
没有你的日子,总习惯沿着你的足迹去寻找。。。

Wednesday, July 07, 2010

Dare to Dream

Everyone have the right to dream.
But How many of us out there have the GUT to fulfill your dream?

Do u have MANY Dreams or you just have ONE that has been with you since you are young?

I have many dreams that is waiting for me to fullfill.. I dare to dream. I dream to fullfill them! :)

Sharing this song with you. Hope all of your dreams come true.

Monday, June 28, 2010

新分居故事(给所有已婚。未婚的朋友)


网友与我分享。。我与你分享。。

給彼此这么大的空间,你~~~~~~做得到吗?


今年三十四岁的谢岱琳,是一家国际性公开公司的高级主管,也是出了十几本兩性婚姻、愛情书的專欄作家,然而,這一切成绩都不如她的「新分居」婚姻故事,令人津津乐道。

她的老公Jeff是個美国人,以前在 ICRT 工作,如今开一家软件设计公司。結婚五年多來,他們即无自己的房子,也沒有共組家庭,各自责屋居住,各有室友,而且谢岱琳的室友还是个男生呢!

「你們結婚,为什么不住在一起?」

 「我愛他,所以我嫁給他,卻不适合和他共同生活。」

谢岱琳說,他是个天真热情却邋遢自由成性的大男孩,衣服、裤子、鞋子脱到哪丟到哪,滿地都是。桌子、抽屜永远堆滿了沒用(要用又找不到)的账单、信件、工具、瓶罐。不知道是不是有很多人有这样的老公?也不知道人家是怎么解決的?

但对于崇尚自由自在又需要很多时间与空间思考企划案与写作的她來说,却受不了每天替他收拾殘局,勉強如是,只怕会变得唠唠叨叨,恋人也會变成怨偶。

常有人問她:他愛妳,不會为妳改变吗?」

「他已经这样生活了三十几年,过得很开心,为什 么要勉強改变?每个人都有自己的生活方式,我从不相信一个人的本性可以改变。」

说也奇怪,从恋愛四年多到结婚,他们从來沒有要找个「家」一起住的念头。

所以,他住在最愛的陽明山,她则选择便利的台北東區。周末假日一起度過,周一到周五见面两、三次,一起吃饭、看电影、社交。有時他到她家,或者她到他家,正如同婚前一样。他们相处方式很尊重尊彼此。

有时,他跟她通完电话后会说:「如果我等一下觉得寂寞,可以再打电话给妳吗?」
「你这么容易寂寞吗?」

「不是,而是我很容易想念妳。」

她说,给他一个想念的机会,可以对自己甜言蜜语,也是一种不错的感觉。他沒有她家的钥匙,到她家前一定先打电话联络好,问她好不好?是否在忙?

有一次他喝醉酒,渾身臭味直接跑到她家,她一边替他洗澡,一边哄他:「我已经很舒服的躺在床上看书,下次喝酒不要來这,直接回你的家好不好?亲愛的」

很多人知道他们的「新分居」故事后,又新奇又羨慕说:「如果我的婚姻关系也能如此,该有多好?」

她总是说:「假使你认为这样不錯,也适合你们,很简单呀,你搬出去,或他搬出去,或是你们一起搬出去。」

但是,接下來对方一定是一堆「可是」的话。究竟你要的是什么样的婚姻?何种关系才能使彼此得到最大的快樂?

谢岱琳记得 Jeff 的母亲在她婚前说过一段令她終身难忘的话:「妳有才華,又独立,我很喜歡也很羨慕妳。记得,妳绝对要保持这样,即使婚后,也要永远以自己 重心,不要把家庭或先生放在最前面,这个道理,我花了很多时间和代价才体会出來。」

原來, Jeff 的父亲曾经外遇,离家一年多。逼得母亲不得不出去找工作,变成一個亮眼的幹練女性。过了很久, Jeff 的父亲回來,看到原本懶得瞧一眼的老婆变得如此具吸引力,就回头了。

结婚、不结婚、同居、分居,都只是形式而已。

世界上每个人都不一样,每兩个人的关系也都不同,只要协调出最适合你们的形式,就对了。重要的是,要有成熟独立的人格,尊重自己也尊重对方,付出的愛于得到的愛才不会是负担,彼此的感情也才自由愉悅. 

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Preview - Repo Man

Thank to Omy... I got to preview this movie @ Cineleisure.
From the Synopsis....
In the futuristic action-thriller Repo Men, humans have extended and improved our lives through highly sophisticated and expensive mechanical organs created by a company called The Union. The dark side of these medical breakthroughs is that if you don’t pay your bill, The Union sends its highly skilled repo men to take back its property…with no concern for your comfort or survival.


Jude Law plays Remy, one of the best organ repo men in the business. When he suffers a cardiac failure on the job, he awakens to find himself fitted with the company’s top-of-the-line heart-replacement…as well as a hefty debt. But a side effect of the procedure is that his heart’s no longer in the job. When he can’t make the payments, The Union sends its toughest enforcer, Remy’s former partner Jake (Academy Award® winner Forest Whitaker), to track him down.

Now that the hunter has become the hunted, Remy joins Beth (Alice Braga), another debtor who teaches him how to vanish from the system. And as he and Jake embark on a chase across a landscape populated by maniacal friends and foes, one man will become a reluctant champion for thousands on the run.

To me...
This show is really a very BLOODY show... There's Blood in almost all the scene.. right from the very begining.. But it's rather a "Awakening" show.. and u dun have a little moment to "Relax" during the show.

Though this show is unmistakably a mess, it must be admitted that it contains some defiantly silly and entertaining moments

But I dun really quite like the ending.

1 tiny advise... Dun watch this show Before any of your meal..

But... I still went dinner with my movies kakis after this movie.. hahaha...

Monday, June 21, 2010

Father's Day

Father's Day, Mother's Day, V Day.. it's actually all just a normal day.. But i never fail to take this chance for a family gathering..

We dun need very elaborated Celebration. We dun need expensive food. We dun need Gifts..
Just spending time togather with the family is the best gifts we can give our parents. Simple Food... It's the thoughts that is enuff to make my parents smile.

My daddy is a man with a few words. But he always had this smile on his face. :) Love u Daddy!

Sunday, June 20, 2010

婚姻

最近听到很多朋友跟我说。。“我离婚了!”

心里想。。现在的婚姻已经不是一辈子的事了。。结婚。。离婚。。好像是儿戏。。
真得那么没价值吗?

在一起生活了几年。。这样就离婚。。那当初结婚时到底有没有想清楚呢?

但我也有几位朋友的父母也在办离婚。。我看他们一定是等到自己的子女都成家立业了。。才决定离婚。。过这自己想过的生活吧。。对自己好一点。。

可能。。离婚不是个坏事吧。。。

两个人一起久了,难免有些摩擦。然而,幸福的婚姻没有固定的模式。

婚姻里最重要的,是两个人相依相守,互相给予,相扶相携,一辈子都不离不弃,唇齿相依。

最终。。只要自己活出精彩。。活得开心。。那是最重要的。。

Thursday, June 17, 2010

10 Things Happy Couples Do

Don't forget to love.. and be loved..")

10 Things Happy Couples Do


Happy couples know that the real relationship begins when the honeymoon is over. They know that unless you maintain the garden of love, its beauty will wither and die.
1. Go to bed at the same time.
Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you couldn't wait to go to bed with each other to make
love? Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times.
They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps.

2. Cultivate common interests.
After the passion settles down, it's common to realize that you have few interests in common. But don't minimize the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent.

3. Walk hand in hand or side by side.
Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy couples walk comfortably hand in hand or side by side. They know it's more important to be with their partner than to see the sights along the way.

4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode.
If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can't resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging.

5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong.
If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something, too. It all depends on what you want to look for. Happy couples accentuate the positive.

6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work.
Our skin has a memory of "good touch" (loved), "bad touch" (abused) and "no touch" (neglected). Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in the "good touch," which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in the world.
7. Say "I love you" and "Have a good day" every morning.
This is a great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each partner sets out each day to battle traffic jams, long lines and other annoyances.

8. Say "Good night" every night, regardless of how you feel.
This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship. It says that what you and your partner have is bigger than any single upsetting incident.

9. Do a "weather" check during the day.
Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you're more in sync when you connect after work. For instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be unreasonable to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that happened to you.

10. Be proud to be seen with your partner.
Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact -- hand
on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.

Even if these actions don't come naturally, happy couples stick with them until they do become a part of their relationship.

They know that it takes 30 days for a change in behavior to become a habit, and a minimum of six months for a habit to become a way of life and love.


"Life is not about what you've gained, it's about what you've done"

Monday, June 14, 2010

得到幸福由你来决定

在某个地方,有一对情侣。女的叫邓惠璇,男的叫陈家宏。他们彼此喜欢。可是女方的家人反对,因为男的很穷。可是女的说:‘除了他,我谁也不会嫁’。。女方的家人只好勉强同意。

结了婚后,惠璇找到了一份工作,是做经理的助理秘书。时常都随经理出去开会,所以每天都要打扮得漂漂亮亮。有一天惠璇心情不好,便到楼下的酒吧喝酒。经理的秘书当时也在那间酒吧喝酒,便看到了惠璇。惠璇因为穷所以便用些便宜的口红,所以口红便沾到了杯子。经理的秘书看了便对她说:‘哎呀!做经理的助理秘书怎可以用些便宜的口红呢?’惠璇听了只好不好意思地走了。

一天,惠璇随家宏到一家百货公司逛街。突然,惠璇停了下来,正看着玻璃橱里的一支口红。家宏便走进去看那支口红。家宏问推销员那支口红多少钱,推销员说那支口红一支三百八十二令吉。家宏吓了一跳心想:要用我半个月的薪水,才能买到这支口红。便拉着惠璇走了。

他们时常都为了那支口红而吵架。不久,惠璇便提起要离婚。虽然家宏还是非常喜欢惠璇,但家宏还是只好勉强随从惠璇的意思。

离了婚不久,惠璇找到了一个富家的男子,名叫黄文龙。文龙给了惠璇一张白金卡,所以惠璇常常到大型的百货公司逛街。不久,惠璇终于知道文龙有外遇。便和文龙吵了起来,文龙忍不住便说:‘我给你钱花,你还管我干嘛?’惠璇便心痛得哭了起来。

某一天,家宏送惠璇一份礼物。惠璇拆了那份礼物,一看原来是上次在百货公司看到的那支口红和一张字条。字条上面还写着:对不起,惠璇。我上次不够钱买这支口红给你,现在我终于存到了三百八十二令吉,买了这只口红送给你。希望你会喜欢。其时我仍不变心还喜欢你。
惠璇终于明白:有钱不代表幸福,穷不代表不幸福,要真心喜欢才是正真的幸福。。

Saturday, June 12, 2010

歲月神偷

最近看了这部戏。。 很喜欢。。有着爱情,友情,亲情。。
在幻变的生命里,岁月,原来是最大的小偷

珍惜现在所拥有的。。
有家人。。一切都好说。。
家人之间。。要懂得谅解。。让步。。沟通。。

“再难也是要有信念。。。。”

在回家的路上。。这首歌就一直在我脑海里唱着。。

Tuesday, June 08, 2010

寻爱的过程

人生就是为了找寻爱的过程,每个人的人生都要找到四个人。


第一个是自己,

第二个是你最爱的人,

第三个是最爱你的人,

第四个是共度一生的人..

首先会遇到【你最爱的人】,然後体会到爱的感觉;

因为了解被爱的感觉,所以才能发现【最爱你的人】;

当你经历过爱人与被爱,学会了爱,才会知道什么是你需要的,

也才会找到最适合你,【能够相处一辈子的人】。

但很悲哀的,在现实生活中,这三个人通常不是同一个人;

你最爱的,往往没有选择你;

最爱你的,往往不是你最爱的;

而最长久的,偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的,

只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人...

你是不是还在寻爱你的“那”个人。。
把自己照顾好。。
不生活过的好好的。。
“他”要出现的时候。。自然会出现的。。

Saturday, June 05, 2010

翹翹板

This is in my mailbox today and i find it quite meaningful.. So here it is...

~ 在这繁忙的都市里。。很多人已经把工作当成比生活还要重要的一部分。。。。要懂得怎么strike a balance 是有点难的。。
问题是。。站在这样的最高点能使你快乐吗?
而且像这样持在高处能持多久?
我想啊。。当“好人”永远比当“强人”来得重要吧!
因为啊。。踩着别人当强人实在容易的。
但呢。。只有好人才能找到真正平衡幸福的对高点。。!!

~~願大家都能找到自己在生活與工作上的平衡點 ~~

Thursday, June 03, 2010

ATTACHMENT

Rec this in my mail box today..

THE WORST IN LIFE IS "ATTACHMENT " IT HURTS WHEN YOU LOSE IT.

THE BEST THING IN LIFE IS " LONELINESS "
BECAUSE IT TEACHES YOU EVERYTHING AND, WHEN YOU LOSE IT, YOU GET EVERYTHING.

在某种程度上。。这句话还蛮真的。。
你认为吗?

Wednesday, June 02, 2010

After Watching 败犬女王...

那天看台湾剧《败犬女王》, 有几位朋友就在facebook写了:

男人和女人说谎的不同之处:
男人说谎是为了要让自己好过。女人说谎是为了要让对方好过。
女人选择欺骗,是因为不想伤害深爱的人。

这么说。。
做男人 好幸福喔!

劉若英 [ 繼續-給十五歲的自己]

这首歌。。我听了有慕名的感动。
希望你们会喜欢。
劉若英 [ 繼續-給十五歲的自己]

許茹芸 & 阿穆隆 - 男人女人

在每个人的世界里。。都有所谓的“对”和“错”
在分手的时候。。一切都是没道理。。
想开了。。值不值得,就很清楚了。。:)

Listen to the lyrics... It's so true..

許茹芸 & 阿穆隆 - 男人女人

爱爱爱爱了几回
也明白其中滋味
付出的从来不会等于收回
我却还在等待着谁能出现

伤伤伤伤了几回
也曾经为爱憔悴
爱情里好人总比坏人狼狈
我却还是学不会狠心对谁

男人男人多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真让我不必再心疼
女人女人我答应做个好人
我答应用我一生来换你的快乐一生

爱爱爱爱了几回
也明白其中滋味
付出的从来不会等于收回
我却还在等待着谁能出现

伤伤伤伤了几回
也曾经为爱憔悴
爱情好人总比坏人狼狈
我却还是学不会狠心对谁

男人男人多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真让我不必再心疼
女人女人我答应做个好人
我答应用我一生来换你的快乐一生

男人男人多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真让我不必再心疼
女人女人我答应做个好人
不会再让我(你)心疼一等再等
你就是我等的那个人

男人男人
女人女人
多么希望你是对的人