Friendsss

I am very skeptical...

I think i make friends with pple quite easily... and i trust pple a tad too easily sometime...

Recently.. a friend suddenly like become very clse to me.. asking me out and whatsapping me alot of things...

Asking me abt bf stuffss... asking me to movies...

And 死不死。。让我读到一个article in cleo.

Quote" B4 you go ard raving to everyone abt her, and planning holidays with her, its best for you to pay attention to the dynamics of the friendship. How did a distant acquaintance turn into yr closest chum? Did a genuine friendship develop natuarally?"

" The 1st sign something is off is when she seems to like everything you do. NO it isnt fate, its her playing fake"

Opss... this sound frightening....

" The best way to avoid befriending such pple is to take it slow."
" Pple who spent all their time trying to befriend someone just so they can use and betray them might get what they are after for now, but they will be left with no one to reminisece abt the past and laugh abt the good ol' time."

Mayb i am too sensitive.. Mayb i think too much.. BUT i was hurt by friends b4 in the past.. and is hurt very badly... mayb that explains why i am sometime weary now.

Confuse...

Too many confusing things going around my tiny brain right now.

There is MANY MANY ifs... and MANY MANY maybe..

There is a jump whenever the msg came.

But wat does it mean actually....

兔年十二星座最红

Have a good Cny everyone.. This is for u guys to enjoy during tis festive holiday!

兔年十二星座最红:
【桃花最红】1.:水瓶；2.双鱼；3.狮子；4.巨蟹；5.金牛；6.射手
【学业最红】1.魔羯；2.狮子；3.天蝎；4.射手；5.双子；6.双鱼
【事业最红】1.天秤；2.天蝎；3.水瓶；4.白羊；5.双鱼；6.狮子。

全球潮流风尚

全球潮流风尚:
【星座的大牌气质】
白羊座—Versace
金牛座—Burberry
双子座—Gucci
巨蟹座—Dunhil
狮子座—Prada
处女座—Dior
天枰座—Skap
天蝎座—D&G
射手座—LV
摩羯座—CK
水瓶座—CHANEL
双鱼座—CHLOE

What do u think?? Suit u??

爱情测试

Happy New year Every one.
Something to while your time.

最近你又谈恋爱的机会吗？
从四个颜色组合当中，选择一个你最喜欢的组合。
A) 黄色跟白色
B) 珊瑚跟蓝色
C) 绿色跟粉红色
D) 黄色跟蓝色

Confuse

Starting to think if i am really suitable. For a job like this... Either i am Tired, or I have No more interest anymore... OR it's just the difference in the way we work..

Is this consider mid life crisis or is this normal? I dunno.. Just wanna to go on a holiday.. Think of nothing. Do nothing and be carefree..

I need time.

久了就习惯了

在微波读到这。。。

一个人单身久了，就不想去恋爱，会觉得朋友越来越重要。

一个人单身久了，就不想逛街，会越来越喜欢在家里听歌。

一个人单身久了，就变得成熟起来，会比以前更爱父母。

一个人单身久了，会想独处去很多很远的地方旅行。

一个人单身久了，会不经意的悄悄流泪，但会在众人面前装作什么都无所谓。

真的吗？

Ungrateful...

I came across this article on facebook... And i think this guy deserved to be KILLED!! Ungrateful idiot~
Even if the mum DID not donate her eye to him... HE shldn't treat her this way.. LET alone.. becos of him.. his mum become this way!

I hope this story is NOT true... 

婚姻

最近听到很多朋友跟我说。。“我离婚了！”

心里想。。现在的婚姻已经不是一辈子的事了。。结婚。。离婚。。好像是儿戏。。
真得那么没价值吗？

在一起生活了几年。。这样就离婚。。那当初结婚时到底有没有想清楚呢?

但我也有几位朋友的父母也在办离婚。。我看他们一定是等到自己的子女都成家立业了。。才决定离婚。。过这自己想过的生活吧。。对自己好一点。。

可能。。离婚不是个坏事吧。。。

两个人一起久了，难免有些摩擦。然而，幸福的婚姻没有固定的模式。

婚姻里最重要的，是两个人相依相守，互相给予，相扶相携，一辈子都不离不弃，唇齿相依。

最终。。只要自己活出精彩。。活得开心。。那是最重要的。。

10 Things Happy Couples Do

Don't forget to love.. and be loved..")

10 Things Happy Couples Do


Happy couples know that the real relationship begins when the honeymoon is over. They know that unless you maintain the garden of love, its beauty will wither and die.
1. Go to bed at the same time.
Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you couldn't wait to go to bed with each other to make
love? Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times.
They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps.

2. Cultivate common interests.
After the passion settles down, it's common to realize that you have few interests in common. But don't minimize the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent.

3. Walk hand in hand or side by side.
Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy couples walk comfortably hand in hand or side by side. They know it's more important to be with their partner than to see the sights along the way.

4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode.
If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can't resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging.

5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong.
If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something, too. It all depends on what you want to look for. Happy couples accentuate the positive.

6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work.
Our skin has a memory of "good touch" (loved), "bad touch" (abused) and "no touch" (neglected). Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in the "good touch," which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in the world.
7. Say "I love you" and "Have a good day" every morning.
This is a great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each partner sets out each day to battle traffic jams, long lines and other annoyances.

8. Say "Good night" every night, regardless of how you feel.
This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship. It says that what you and your partner have is bigger than any single upsetting incident.

9. Do a "weather" check during the day.
Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you're more in sync when you connect after work. For instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be unreasonable to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that happened to you.

10. Be proud to be seen with your partner.
Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact -- hand
on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.

Even if these actions don't come naturally, happy couples stick with them until they do become a part of their relationship.

They know that it takes 30 days for a change in behavior to become a habit, and a minimum of six months for a habit to become a way of life and love.


"Life is not about what you've gained, it's about what you've done"

翹翹板

This is in my mailbox today and i find it quite meaningful.. So here it is...

~ 在这繁忙的都市里。。很多人已经把工作当成比生活还要重要的一部分。。。。要懂得怎么strike a balance 是有点难的。。

问题是。。站在这样的最高点能使你快乐吗?
而且像这样持在高处能持多久？
我想啊。。当“好人”永远比当“强人”来得重要吧！
因为啊。。踩着别人当强人实在容易的。
但呢。。只有好人才能找到真正平衡幸福的对高点。。！！

~~願大家都能找到自己在生活與工作上的平衡點 ~~

ATTACHMENT

Rec this in my mail box today..

THE WORST IN LIFE IS "ATTACHMENT " IT HURTS WHEN YOU LOSE IT.

THE BEST THING IN LIFE IS " LONELINESS "
BECAUSE IT TEACHES YOU EVERYTHING AND, WHEN YOU LOSE IT, YOU GET EVERYTHING.

在某种程度上。。这句话还蛮真的。。
你认为吗？